Some Thoughts On Lesbian Pride

Posted on June 15, 2008
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picture-5.pngPosted By Nyna

I’ve been an out (i.e., practicing) dyke for thirty years now, and I have to say that I am more proud today than ever before to be a lesbian AND an American. This year I’ve been able to choose between voting for a woman and an African-American for theoffice of President of the United States, both of whom have promised to guarantee the rights of lesbians and gays when elected.

While we all enjoy and take for granted our constitutional right to “…the pursuit of happiness,” I have gotten to know and love women from other countries where one can receive the death-penalty for being queer. Amazing, isn’t it, how in this same year the president of The Gambia gave homosexuals 24 hours notice to leave the country or be beheaded. Just last year the president of Iran ignorantly claimed that there were no homosexuals in his country, a statement which was greeted with unabashed laughter here at Columbia University.

2008 is also the same year during which Archbishop Desmond Tutu apologized to lesbians and gays on behalf of The Church, and stated that he could imagine Jesus weeping at the treatment received by some of us, perpetrated by The Church.

Years ago I had a lover who was molested in childhood by her father, yet was pressured by her mother and sister to marry a man in order to “preserve the dignity of the family.” I have stood in hospital hallways while my first lover was dying of breast cancer, yet her doctors only discussed her condition with her parents in spite of the fact that documents appointing me as attorney-in-fact were on file with the hospital and the courts. (The nurses, however, were most supportive, and fully acknowledged our relationship.)

I’ve had a lover who couldn’t hold my hand in public out of fear that someone from the office might see her and report back to her work-colleagues. Our straight friends have no idea of the daily pressures we face to conceal our love. What a privilege it is so be able to hold your beloved’s hand without having to think about whether or not it is safe to do so.

Make no mistake: It takes courage to be queer, and it takes even more courage to love. Some of us have more of it than others. To any ignorant, Bible-thumping homophobe, I loudly retort that Jesus commands us to “Love thy neighbor.” Anyone who can’t get his or her brain around that must not have much of a brain in the first place.

Keep loving, ladies! “You are beautiful, no matter what they say…”

Nyna is a screenwriter and film director. She lives in Paris and New York City.

Let The Grilling Begin!

Posted on June 14, 2008
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shrimp.jpgSummer doesn’t officially begin until June 21st, but it doesn’t officially start until you’ve had your first barbecue!

There should be nothing hard about grilling season. Drag the grill out of storage, check the propane tank or buy the charcoal, invite your friends, and open a beer or pour some wine.

This year, ditch the hot dogs and try some of these yummy recipes. ENJOY.

Grilled Portobello Mushrooms Stacked with Fresh Spinach and Shaved Manchego Cheese

Ginger Soy-Lime Marinated Shrimp

Cumin Glazed Grilled Pork Chops

Cuban Style Burgers on the Grill

Constitutional Amendment To Ban Gay Marriage In Puerto Rico Fails

Posted on June 13, 2008
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Puerto Rico’s house of representatives has denied a measure to toughen a ban on same-sex marriage.

Rep. Victor García San Inocencio says Resolution 99 failed on Thursday to make it to the house floor for voting, effectively killing the proposal for this legislative term.

The measure would have amended the U.S. territory’s constitution to establish that marriage is between a man and woman and that no other types of unions could be recognized. Thus, it would have made it harder to allow civil unions or grant marital rights to unmarried couples.

Critics said the amendment was unnecessary because local laws already ban same-sex marriage. Others argued it was discriminatory. (via AP)

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